With the age of the promotion, beside those pots of friends have long entered the temple of love life, marrying and having children. But there are also some pots of friends, can not help being labeled “older leftover women” sun hat, on the anxious to “farewell single”, I am in one of them. I am one of them. It’s not that I don’t want to be in a relationship, but I just want to meet someone who understands you, who must be good enough in my eyes to help me carry a whole safe indoor space.
Like many children, because I love those types of guys and girls who are cool and handsome, humorous, have fun around and bring back affection. But this kind of guy or girl either very difficult to see, or see all have the main one, even if not the main one, is about to be a philanderer. If you can really see my voice, you must be able to see the cry of “please God give me a goddess”!
How to recognize a philanderer is a lesson that a woman will learn in her life. In order to bypass the philandering man, successful search for a dream of male students, I specially went to the love hurricane of these relationship training courses, cold love teacher to teach them to observe the boys from the perspective of the girls, to identify the boys as people. “Knowing men have skills”, efforts are not in vain, but also really want me to see the current boyfriend.
Honestly speaking, he is that type of initial launch doubly unfamiliar sense of male and female, corridor clear, although very cute, but good words do not say much, is a technical project division. We all know in many classmates reunion, he is a colleague of classmates, I heard was dragged out, the whole line of people play, he sometimes Hou seconded to pick up a few sentences, but also not easy to deliberately to make women happy, so that quietly lying drinking, friends Xiao Feng (friends in the same industry) quietly discussed with me, said he is really a mediocre nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd nerd, also did not express the view.
During this period inadvertently noticed that he received a phone call, about the son’s phone, originally some serious little expression suddenly came a 180-degree turn, mouth are smiling, said: “Ya Ya smart, want to eat what? Uncle back to let you buy home.” This call made sitting on one side of our tears of laughter. From this, this brother and son’s feelings are really better, I often some admiration jealous which can he will be so gentle children. 1 to the child gentle and serious girl, even if again face phase again how cold, his heart is sheepish, I think I should consider this boy and girl.
There are after you do we all know is fate this kind of thing, coincidentally basin friend mess to buy truth or dare mobile game, turn to me with him, I said he answered.
Me: “If to you to the scene to find a female colleague, you are most happy who if your boyfriend?” I pretended to think about it, then followed up with a pretentious follow-up question. (I think after that my heart is drumming, also feel myself seems some crazy)
I didn’t think he’d hesitate to say, “If I have to choose, then I’ll choose you.”
I never thought he would say that, I was a little shocked. The little friends but happy, sold in the side of the mess: “together, together–”, finally finally they just put the topic of the argument forked out.
What’s more, I want to have an accident, the party activities are scattered, Xiao Feng went to pee, I first to the side of the waiting for her, I can’t imagine that I met him again. He also seems to be some accident, actually also walked out to me, playing with the greeting, “Hello! I am Cheng Xian, 30 years old in 2019, is a technical engineer”, after a pause, he added: ‘soon truth or dare, I speak is indeed, if you are going to find no male classmates, people can’t consider to get along to see’. Ghostly, I also forgot to be amiable, the scene nodded, exchanging phone calls, and then gradually, many times party activities, I suddenly and wonderfully empty a boyfriend.
However, such a feeling is not bad, as a technical project division, his work there after very busy, but every time I am what he is attentive to listen to, even if sometimes the phone is not immediately connected, short message is not immediately denied, after he will describe to me, which want me to be very comfortable.
Getting along with two months later, I know his phone child “YaYa”, a very pleasing to the favor of the 4-year-old girl, smile with a small dimple, and his feelings are really better, to go to the two accompanied by taking her to the children’s amusement park, he let us buy tickets to pass the water, I want to have a kind of family of the wrong impression.
Getting along 1.5 years later, my 28th birthday, he proposed to me, are not romantic, a bouquet of flowers, a diamond ring, but there is no hesitation, agreed to his confession, two months later, people get a marriage license, into a family.
I’d rather have a lack of, waiting for this pure feelings, I’m very persistent. Previously, because I do not exclude my father and grandfather assigned dating dating, but do you understand? Married life is a matter of life, if indeed disgusted, why bother to live a good life life, each other are not happy. That is, meet him, why bother to care about these amicable, why not have a piece of it? Some people, if you miss, is to say life. If you think he is worth it, why love it?
In these drinking parties or public places, there will not be too difficult to hear after these people receive a phone call from their father, the tone of voice heavy very absent-minded: “Not busy, eat and then return.” Without saying a few words, they hang up in a hurry. Busy with what? Busy drinking, saying something irrelevant, but do not have the patience to listen to their parents a few more words.
I have a strong impression that many times, when many people took a woman’s car to talk, halfway through the conversation, he received a phone call from his father saying that she was a bit distressed and did not want to cook today. The man immediately replied, “What would you like to eat? I’ll go back early and bring it back? Cake from Ivy? Cookies from Green House? Or something a little spicier for the challenge?”
They were so happy to hear on one side that it took a meal to get so many choices, and the harder things got funnier and funnier. I also thought of him after that, after I got sick and gave them a phone call that after that, he helped me with relief and care, did he also want me to become the other side’s envious and jealous other half too? Hey, hey, hey.
Also many times, are in a drinking game, in one of the women dining out eat a large part of the phone call to the son, gentle very gentle: “I’ll be home before 8:30, you go to bed first. I have my keys with me and will be able to open and close the door.” He learned to put the phone down to state that his mom had recently come to the house for a small visit and his wife happened to be socializing this evening. Mom goes to bed early and if he doesn’t come out, she can’t sleep and tells him her early and she lets it go. 8:00 has just arrived and he apologizes for excusing himself and leaving early. I see these rhymes in them based on this key point.
What does it mean to be a real woman? Girls who know how to value their mothers and care for their loved ones are considered indeed boys! A girl like that is a girl whose heart is filled with energy. If you meet such a girl, marry her.