Men and women in the city have their own hopes for the future, and all of them are practicing their youthful years in their own unique ways. Living in the bustling city, perhaps they are for the future shuttle in the city office staff, perhaps they are not for the life of the free people, or perhaps they have a good family background of rich children. But when it comes to love, urban men and women have their own emotional confusion, facing love, they are full of doubts. Follow Lovis to listen to them.
How to choose between love and affection?
Now he is working in the prosperous metropolis of Shanghai, while he comes from a remote mountain village, it is his parents’ efforts for many years to let him take the opportunity to study this road out of the village, towards the urbanized life. He is now the deputy general manager of his company and owns his own house and car in Shanghai, a high-cost city. His girlfriend has started to talk to him about getting married, and he intends to bring his parents to live with him in Shanghai, but she disagrees and only agrees to buy a house for her parents in her hometown.
Love with his girlfriend from the university, each other has been in love, quarrels are very few, once also for her real name customized a lifetime only to send a person’s Levis diamond ring, he is not willing to lose his girlfriend, but he also do not want to turn their backs on their parents, he knows that even if you give your parents even better environment, without their own companionship, no children and grandchildren around the knee, they will not be happy. In the entanglement of love and affection, he and the trouble, can not love and affection in harmony? Parents gave birth to him to raise him, deviated from is unfilial, since and girlfriend love each other, why not use their love to sensitize her, so that she also knows your inner contradiction.
Love Vows
Into the marriage, is into the grave of love?
Nowadays, there are a lot of urban men and women are always hovering in love and marriage on that key step, hesitant to enter the marriage, that is because they are emotionally confused – into the marriage, really as the saying goes, marriage is the grave of love? As the city men and women, almost every time we can see some couples love fade, couples love change and divorce rate is getting higher and higher news, which makes more and more young urban men and women on the marriage has questioned.
Since in love can enjoy their own pursuit of that a sweet and happy, and why have to be that a piece of paper as a witness to the marriage, in turn, let each other’s love in the bondage to increase the environment gradually dissipate it? In fact, marriage is not terrible, always with “marriage is the tomb of love” as an excuse to refuse marriage, in fact, is their own lack of confidence in themselves, but also on the marriage of that responsibility has not been taken.
Love, can be obtained with money?
Why do urban men and women feel that this society is becoming more and more realistic, it is because what they see, what they have experienced to make their once young ideas have changed. There are a lot of urban men and women in love, ultimately lost in the parents picky eyes. Parents are actually very simple and clear, that is, your condition, your financial strength is enough, especially the female parents. We can’t judge the parents as snobbish, because they are just trying to make their daughter’s future life less hard, at most, they can only say it’s a kind of selfish love. And this also draws a line in the heart of urban men and women, there is no money, is the capital of your love can continue.
In the face of the measurement of money, in the face of love and affection quarters, in the face of love and marriage across, urban men and women on the love of the confusion is constantly, I just hope that they do not end up lost in the metropolis full of temptation and trials, can see clearly in the heart of their own, and have the courage to defend a lifetime of one person only love Love Levis-style love.